There was a court case recently in the UK in which a gay couple sued the Christian owners of a Bed and Breakfast who refused to allow them to stay since they had a policy against renting single rooms to unmarried couples.
An opinion piece on the article asks the question: what do we do when rights collide? How do we resolve the clash between the Christians’ right to exercise their faith vs. the homosexuals’ right to choose their own lifestyle?
Most enlightening about this article were the comments: Almost all of them, including those by self-proclaimed Christians, reveal reasoning based on social ethics.
These days, whenever someone says something is “immoral” or “unethical”, I immediately have to ask: based on which system of ethics? There are three prevailing systems of ethics out there: Relative Ethics, Social Ethics, and Religious Ethics. (There are others, but they’re employed by the “elite few”, who rarely apply them consistently.)
Relative ethics don’t survive under scrutiny. Essentially, that’s the belief that whatever an individual believes to be right is right. This system collapses, since it leaves no room for any kind of moral comparison. Court cases would be reduced to: Judge: “Do you believe you did the right thing when you murdered that person?” Defendant: “Yes.” Judge: “Not guilty.” Most people who say they believe this are either deluding themselves, or really believe social ethics, which is a modification of relative ethics.
Social ethics are simply: “what the majority says is right, is right.” In other words, if the majority of people in 1850 believed homosexuality is wrong, it was wrong. Now that the majority of people believe it’s right, it’s right. This gives some basis for moral decisions, but it’s clearly a shaky foundation. As a society’s perception changes, so does the standard of right and wrong, and no moral knowledge can be relied upon long term. It appears to me this is what the majority of people believe today.
Religious ethics is the belief that there is an absolute moral standard, revealed by God in a religion’s holy book. (Bible, Qu’ran, Vedas, etc.) Historically, this has been the basis for morality in many societies, and still is in many Islamic countries. This gives the most concrete basis for moral decisions. (I won’t get into the debate over the validity of moral systems in the various religions at this point.)
So, the issue of who’s rights should win out in the issue of Christian vs. Homosexuals is a question of which moral system you employ. If you employ social ethics, then according to polls 74% of Britons believe homosexuality is a legitimate lifestyle, and the homosexuals should win. If, however, you employ Christian-based religious ethics, which condemns unmarried sexual relationships in general and homosexuality in particular, the Christians win.
My goal in this article is not to debate “who should win”, but rather to prompt your thinking about which moral system you use. And once you recognize that, to ask yourself, is that the best moral system I could use?
I would argue that religious ethics are the only stable way to go, which means those readers who do not claim a religion may need to struggle with the question of should they claim a religion, and if so, which one?